Sunday Self #empower #connect #share #wisdom #story #financial freedom
Sunday stories have been around for centuries: church sermons, prayers, movies, radio shows, television religion shows, and making memories from which stories can be told forever. The stories are about religion, God, sin, adventures, love stories, dramas, and fantasies.
Stories never became part of my life until I reached the point of self worth in my career, first in government which is full of stories; then in finance where most stories cannot be shared, and then in financial planning where my life experience became the basis of stories to help other women especially. That was when I learned the value of stories for that is how many women really relate their own lives and make them their stories.
There is an art that is learned in storytelling: how to preserve integrity and confidentiality, how to have good taste, how to know when to share a story and when not to share a story. It has to be applicable in time and place without hurting anyone’s sensibilities. It is knowing when to offer advice and when not to. And I do believe I am still learning. It seems the closer I am to someone, the more careful I try to be now. Psychology and reading signals are important to maintaining everyone’s space in story telling.
Perhaps the most important stories are the ones we tell ourselves. Feelings and emotions are a choice. In Seth Godin’s blog this morning, he shared about “irritated” being a choice. “And it’s a choice because the act of being irritated involves the story we tell ourselves. People are rarely irritated by gravity, because gravity got here before us. If you’re telling yourself a story that leads to you being irritated, you’re welcome to change your story.”
The same goes for every feeling, every emotion, and every moment of your life living in the NOW. Your story about anything can be changed at any time. Yes, it sometimes takes time to become aware of the story we are telling to ourselves, and to others. Becoming aware is the first step. Finding our reaction internally and externally to that story is next. Then we can change the story or continue on with it. That is also a choice.
When EMPOWER Excellence began 7 years ago, I had one story. New chapters were added when we accepted the challenge of PROFESSIONAL WOMEN’S CONNECTION and most recently with AGELESS WOMEN OF WISDOM. They were separate stories that have now become a type of anthology which is melding into one theme: Financial Freedom. And there are plenty of stories in each category. But their major goal is Financial Freedom with the underlying, connected themes of EMPOWER, CONNECT, SHARE, and WISDOM. Stories do all of that. And this Sunday, someone I love is beginning memories–good or bad–that will become not only their stories in the future but also my stories as well. And they may never be shared!