Softly Flowing Out of Sight!

Flowing!

Nope, not going to happen for women are becoming stronger, aren’t you? Each of you whether an introvert or extrovert is an individual and you will never bend beyond your comfort level so that others are more comfortable with you—you are different and you were created to be different. SOURCE DOES NOT USE COOKIE CUTTERS! Continue to flow in your lane of THE UNIVERSE never ever stopping to think if someone is intimidated. You are flowing right by those who are thinking of screwing with your person! Blow them a kiss and FLOW!💋🌊🏊‍♀️

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Like to be Alone? A Legacy will work for you, too!

Do you shine like a star? Are you the only star in the sky? No matter what the answer is, you are one of a kind. I am what folks call an extroverted introvert. Are you? I am always balancing “alone” time with “social” time. And I have found that social time with folks who understand my alone time: we are writers!

And we write! But our time together is also precious time because we share what we are writing, what our hopes and aspirations are, and how we can support each other.

Folks who do not write sometimes take exception to what we write about; and sometimes that bothers us; and then we come to our senses. It is enough to begin to use a pseudo name…

What I write about is money energy, and money energy is very personal. I prepared for my current role working not only in a congressional office where everyone who came to us was respected and kept confidential unless they wanted others to know what they were seeking help with. Then I spent 17 plus years in financial services where everything is private, sacred, and confidential. My clients, my subjects in my work are confidential!

But, when I write a personal blog, it may be venting and PERSONAL. Even when the names are kept out, characters in my life can recognize themselves. It is still my story, and there is no client confidentiality clause. Misbehave in my life, and you never know. A relationship of more than 20 years was known to tell me he would never leave because he knew I might just tell the story! We are no longer together, but I respect the time we had together, and, so far, it has not been made public!

All of this leads up to why even solo folks should play a Legacy in their own way, in their own time, and keep it as confidential as they want. It can be done. My clients are sacred to me! A Family Legacy in Financial Wellness is unique. Money Energy is rarely a solo journey. Everyone is impacted by the past as well as the NOW, and everyone has a future they are concerned with and the future of those they care about. Creating a Legacy begins with that concern and love. While a Family Legacy can be a joint family affair, it can also be for the solo star. Like the stars, being alone and mysterious is a part of their allure and charm.

Let’s talk, Star! Your Legacy can be your story and only your story…if that is what you want.

janicelitterst@gmail.com

I Do Not Care About Living on the Fringe!

Self Confidence Super Power

In a recent effort to stay focused on Personal Sustainability, self-esteem has been a major topic.  When you reach self confidence in this area, you are indeed a super power.  Yes, magic does happen.  Does it happen all of the time?  No!  Do people like and love you more?  No!  

What does happen is that the more self esteem and the more self confidence you have, the more many people look at you like you are living on the fringe.  I try not to become involved in pettiness, gossip, etc.  I also become a little more judgmental privately.  I have very high standards, and those standards and values are not always shared.  Throughout my career, I have been in unusual positions in government, politics, finances, and many times there may not have been standards and values evident to the naked eye.  I was on the fringe back then, and I am still on the fringe today even in my own business.  I live my life in the most ethical way I can, and my patience for those who are not honest, ethical, or living their values is very small.  That is living on the fringe today.  

I am currently purging much of my email and Facebook feeds.  I simply want my time spent better, and I have found all of it has become addictive.  My focus is on my personal and professional dedication to Personal Sustainability, and The Empower Excellence Experience is designed to do just that with spirituality, money, food, and chemical free living.  I am trying, and it is hard, not to post anything that is negative in this regard:  no politics, no Monsanto, no negative thinking,  and I am succeeding.  “Friends”, groups, and more are in the least being “unfollowed” or “unfriended”.  Please do not take it personally, that is for me to do.  My personal values are the measurement I am using as much as I can these days.  And it is putting me on the fringe, I know that.  But my self esteem and self confidence have been worked on for years.  Earlier this week, the germination of the new me burst forth with multiple examples from the Universe on what I needed to work on:  no more bullshitters allowed, no truth–no friend, no game players allowed, no rule breakers allowed, no audacious characters who feel privileged, and more.  This is not easy, but it is where the Universe, my purpose and mission are leading me.  Dreams have been lucid in their directions.  Sleep has been plentiful and peaceful.  The seed has been planted for this season; the seed has survived through many tests; and now the seed is germinated and moving on to the current creation of me.  And I am grateful.  Whatever is being left in the wake of this new birth is meant to be left behind.  I transplanted myself to Oberlin, tested the soil, and I am now the new Oberlin me!  There have been tests to go through for me to find my new way, and I am now on the path.

I have always been on the fringe, a little weird, a little odd, a little geeky, a little bit of an introvert appearing as an extrovert, a Mensa in a common person’s dress, and much more fringe type personas.  But I am older now, I am happier now, and I am working toward the Personally Sustainable life I have envisioned for years.  There is no time and no room for those who are not authentic, who are not true, who are fake, who are audacious, who are trying to beat the system.  And there is no time for those who participate in negativity of any kind:  political, values, life, and more.  And it is not mine going forward to take any of these personalities to task.  That is the role of The Universe, karma, and higher powers.  Let me live my life on the mission and purpose that is mine, let me love my life, let me love all who cross my path, knowing that those who I do not wish to walk my path with will remove themselves quickly or The Universe will do it for them…and for me!  And I am grateful for that!

No Matter, My Mood Does Not Matter

Peopley

Many who know me would not agree that I am an introvert.  I can be many things including an extrovert.  But, there has to be a balance, a day when I can stay home so happily and just work or play or read.  Today is a day when I am very happy being here…

Over the weekend, I was one of the “peopley”, and I welcome that whether it is a happy or sad gathering.  But I am learning my balance.

and I have found that by finding the balance my mood stays balanced…and that is a good thing!

 

Keep Doing The Work, and the Flow Will Follow…

i live in my own little world...

I ENTERED MY OWN LITTLE WORLD OVER TWO YEARS AGO ALTHOUGH THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO WOULD SAY I HAVE BEEN IN MY OWN LITTLE WORLD FOR MY WHOLE LIFE, AND THEY WOULD BE RIGHT.  I TRIED FOR YEARS TO FIT IN, TO MARCH TO THE SAME DRUMMER AS MY PEERS, BUT IT NEVER WORKED, AND IT WILL NEVER WORK BECAUSE I HAVE LEARNED THAT I AM AN ENTREPRENEUR.

NO, I AM NOT ANTI-SOCIAL, ALTHOUGH I AM AN INTROVERT WHO DOES WELL BEING AN EXTROVERT.

I WALKED THE EDGE OF BEING A COMMISSION BASED FINANCIAL PLANNER, BUT THAT WAS ALMOST NOT GOOD EVEN THOUGH I DID ACQUIRE A FANTASTIC FINANCIAL BACKGROUND.  AND I WAS GOOD AT WHAT I DID, BUT BEING GOOD I CARED A LOT ABOUT MY CLIENTS AND THAT DOES NOT FIT WELL IN THE CORPORATE WORLD!

SO NOW I HAVE WORKED MY YOU KNOW WHAT OFF FOR OVER TWO YEARS, AND, YOU KNOW WHAT, THAT HARD WORK IS PAYING OFF.  WITH THE NEW MOON EARLIER THIS WEEK FOR ME IT HAS BEGUN A CASCADE OF OPPORTUNITIES FOR MY BUSINESS.  I MEAN WONDERFUL OPPORTUNITIES , AND, YES, I HAVE TO CONTINUE WORKING VERY HARD, BUT THIS IS ACTUALLY FUN WORK, FOLLOWING MY PASSION AND MY LIFE MISSION AND HAVING PEOPLE BEGIN TO “GET IT”.

so no matter what your business is, or even your business idea, believe in you, follow your passion, find your mission, and find yourself in your own little world!

AND FLY!

Butterflies Abstract

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