You Will Never CONNECT if…

You don’t believe in yourself! If you focus on what others think and expect of you, you will continue to act on and attract more of what they desire for you. Shift your inner thoughts to what YOU intend to create and attract into your life, you will then save your mental energy to what you want for you and not what others expect from you. Networking is not easy but if you can focus on you and what you want for your life while doing what you can to help others be successful in their ventures, you will find what you want! CONNECT and see!

The Confidence of Fun…or The Fun of Confidence!

Conundrums are fun! Do we become confident because of fun or do we have fun with confidence? And this is not just for women and girls…it is for everyone! I am confident, most of the time. I am not confident some of the time. Sometimes it is because of competence or a lack of it in whatever action I am attempting to take. Success is often talked about in terms of relationships, reputation, results, and resilience. It would be great if we could just feel competence at any level and then take the level of confidence that corresponds to it as we are all learners at every level of life. There is so much talk of “feminine energy”, “girl power”, and more, but, you know what, men are just as lacking in competence and confidence. It is not a tribal movement, it is a people movement; I just feel with my AWW Ageless Women of Wisdom that being female I am most qualified to work with, converse with, and retreat with women! Men find their voice most times with men, and women most times find their voice with women. Many things to be let go of: a need to be understood, anxiety, stress, low self esteem–It is all self worth–men and women. And covering one gap at a time works, let’s not try to solve everything at once. What I am trying to say is you are who you are…BE who you are to start a transition!

Wealthy Women Transform the World!

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Women are very good at creating legacies.  Women GIVE to the degree that 64% of online donations are made by women!  Girls at a young age want to make money because they learn that, if they want something and their parents will not buy it, then they want to have their own money.  Then they can buy what they want.  They are all for an allowance.  This is their first step into financial freedom.  It is an opportunity to care about their financial well-being, and that opportunity is carried with them through life to nurture family, close or not-so-close, with what is the foundation of a family legacy for financial wellness.  Beginning to acquire money at an early age actually helps instill the thought of abundance rather than lack, confidence rather than lack of confidence, optimism rather than pessimism.  And it is never too late to begin to look for the freedom that money brings…especially if you are a woman!

Coaching is a Service Profession…Reality

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Coaching is many things, but it is not Therapy, Consulting, Mentoring, Training, or Athletic Development.   Really.  But, if you want to take advantage of an opportunity or challenge, that can be coaching.  If you are stuck on your path to setting or achieving your goals, coaching can help.  Positive coaching can affect:

  • Communication skills
  • Beginning a new professional role
  • Optimizing your work performance
  • Improving strategic thinking
  • Increasing well being
  • Increasing self confidence & self worth
  • and more…

You are already a “luminous” being and working with a coach in partnership can increase”flow” in all areas of your life.  Why would this help with your money relationship?  Why would coaching “Make Money Simple”?

BECAUSE communication skills, career mobility, work performance, strategic thinking, well being, confidence, self worth and more affect you, affect your money relationship, and can “Make Money Simple” while making your whole life simpler.

As a coach, I work as your partner, accountability and otherwise, to help you identify and make changes that can “Make Money Simple”, which can then make other areas of your life “simple”, too!

Coaching is a Service Profession…Reality

Reality Flow Beckwith

Coaching is many things, but it is not Therapy, Consulting, Mentoring, Training, or Athletic Development.   Really.  But, if you want to take advantage of an opportunity or challenge, that can be coaching.  If you are stuck on your path to setting or achieving your goals, coaching can help.  Positive coaching can affect:

  • Communication skills
  • Beginning a new professional role
  • Optimizing your work performance
  • Improving strategic thinking
  • Increasing well being
  • Increasing self confidence & self worth
  • and more…

You are already a “luminous” being and working with a coach in partnership can increase”flow” in all areas of your life.  Why would this help with your money relationship?  Why would coaching “Make Money Simple”?

BECAUSE communication skills, career mobility, work performance, strategic thinking, well being, confidence, self worth and more affect you, affect your money relationship, and can “Make Money Simple” while making your whole life simpler.

As a coach, I work as your partner, accountability and otherwise, to help you identify and make changes that can “Make Money Simple”, which can then make other areas of your life “simple”, too!

Self Esteem Based on Money!

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There have been so many discussions for me this week about money…clients, networking groups, and more.  And then there is my own self perception and self esteem that has been talked about.   It does matter in all cases to know what you are building your self esteem on.  Please do not build it on money.  And do not focus on being right or being smart.  I have built my self esteem on being a constant learner about life, about money, about relationships.  And be willing to admit when you are wrong about anything.  Being a learner, being able to admit when you are wrong, brings much personal strength and takes away much fear.  To build your self esteem on money will only place you in the position of always being fearful that the money will disappear and so will your self esteem…and self confidence.

Money Emotion, Confidence, & Behavior

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Most people are looking for peace with their money relationships, and there are many roads on which to travel to get to that peace!  To start with emotion, confidence, and behavior is a good start.  It is the start of mental strength.  It is knowing that you are going to be fine with your money.  And sometimes that feeling of confidence comes not only from mental strength but also from spiritual strength.  More appropriately, spiritual strength comes from faith.  And this is a tricky area to work in when you begin creating a good money relationship; and that is because money is very complicated and tricky.  But to know that you WILL be ok no matter what in whatever part of our life, and especially with money, comes from a deeply instilled confidence of faith.  That touches on every taboo that a person may hold in their hearts, and it is risky to go there before a person signals a readiness to go there.  So the answer is to go slow:  gauge the emotion, feel the confidence, and watch the behavior–the body language–before touching on “faith”.  It will become apparent that someone is open to approaching their faith confidence.  If it is not, then the simple areas of emotion, confidence, and behavior can get you started on the evolution of your money relationship!

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Do You Struggle With Money?

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Do you struggle with money?

Many people struggle with various tools, whether they be for fixing cars, gardening, or working in the kitchen.

If they have not been exposed to the tool and how to use it from an early age, it is a foreign entity in their life.  As adults, when tools are not easy to adapt to, or we choose not to take the time to adapt, the struggle can continue forever.

Money is a tool.  Money can be a struggle if it is not introduced at an early age with comfort.  The older we get, and we continue to struggle with any tool including money, the pain never goes away.

Think of money as a tool.  Begin to familiarize yourself with it.  See what emotion is holding you back and continuing to present a struggle for you.  You can get better with a tool–understanding the function, learning the benefits, and practicing until you are confident.

Love What You Love…

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It doesn’t matter who or what you love as long as you love!  Yes, you can love money, too!  But even before loving something or someone, learn to love yourself.  And really love what you love, including yourself. This will inspire you to great things, and that will inspire strangers.  Be open with yourself and with others…love includes being open, being vulnerable, and more.  Find you, find your style, and love it!  And, even if you are bossy, love it.  Being bossy is displaying confidence.  It is a style, and I love it when I am bossy.

Remember, you only get one shot at life.  Everyone gets older, everyone dies, so love the life you live.  Love you, and loving thoughts, loving experiences, loving feelings, and loving people…and things, including money; and then love will be second nature; it will also be your style.  Love you!

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