No one is going to live your life for you…No One! And especially when it comes to your money life, No One can live this part of your life for you…UNLESS YOU LET THEM! And then you have opened the door to giving up control of what your life will be, you are giving up! It may seem easier, but in the end, it is tragic. And it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy–someone else is living your life.
With all of my work in transforming money relationships, I have seen what years of letting someone else make your money decisions for you can do. In marriages, this type of relationship becomes not only control but also financial abuse. Yes, really, this is a type of abuse. The person who controls the money, controls!
If this is your current situation, think about changing it. Be BRAVE enough to begin this thinking, which, hopefully, will lead to actions in a small consistent way. Please, just think about making you an active part of your decisions about money. Are you Brave enough to start?